Why everyone – even your family – is against you

You want to start an online business? Then you should first prepare for something. Because you will be alone – completely alone! In fact, you will even have opponents who want to make it difficult for you to build an online business.

Not everyone will suffer from this misfortune, but you should be prepared for it, because in most cases, friends, family members or other people will want to stop you.

Why this is so, you will find out in this article. One thing in advance: you can not prevent it, but I’ll show you how to best handle it.

“Making money on the internet is impossible”

For most people, this sounds like hocus pocus when they hear that someone wants to start an online business to earn money online. That’s simply not possible, because otherwise everyone would do it.

Sounds too good to be true. Not?

Well … that you can make money on the internet, I really do not have to tell you here. Either you have a brilliant idea or you work hard to earn money online. It is possible in any case!

Much more important is the question of what resistance you can expect. And I’ll take a closer look at that now.

What your friends and family will tell you

  • “You can never do it!”
  • “Find a normal job!”
  • “Stop dreaming, do something sensible!”
  • “Leave it, that’s scam anyway!”

And comparable sentences …

In fact, they will try to manipulate you until you finally give up … or now the big BUT you’ve managed to succeed!

Only in the rarest cases one is supported by his friends or his family, but most people only have the following 3 options left if they want to start an online business:

  1. Give up
  2. Remain silent
  3. Stop listening

To 1: Giving up is the simplest, but not really the most advanced option.
To 2: Silence is gold. Just secretly build your online business and do not tell anyone about it.
To 3: Do not listen and let others just talk is also a very good solution, because so you can immediately increase your own self-esteem.

What other people will tell you

Depending on where and how you build your online business, you will also meet with resistance from other people outside of your circle of acquaintances. This is especially true when working on social media platforms like Facebook. At least when your online business is about making money on the internet, because like everywhere else in the world, this is a big taboo topic.

Insults, prejudices, threats, and other manipulation techniques can be expected just to keep you from making money from your business. Such sayings are usually obtained from envious people, haters or people who can not think outside the box.

For those who do not want to give up, the only option is to ignore such sayings.


Often “normal” people just can not think outside the box. It goes far beyond their imagination that you can actually make money online.

If your mindset is not right, you will fail miserably at building an online business. You need a great deal of motivation, ambition and perseverance if you want to be successful. Learn to deal with resistance, develop a great personality and become mentally strong. Only if you strive against the stream you can succeed. Do not count on the help of others. Just go your way. If others support you, be happy!

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